Husband make fun of my disorder.?
i am 25 years old. i have borderline personailty disorder and bi polar. my husband is equal age. he has been making fun of my disorder's lately. i discern cold inside when he does that or doesnt want to cuddle with me. i try giving him a kiss ealier and he just pushed me away. i dont rob medications either cuz i dont own insurance. i have a 2yr old boy as okay. but my question is what should i do when my hubby makes fun of me? i dont show him that it hurts but inside im yell and crying inside. wanting to hurt myself. but these voices tell me not to cuz i own a son that i need to take protection of. i love my son dearly and wouldnt cut myself again lke i did b4. i cant live without him so i am here trying to fight this cramp im having.
i cope with my mental state by talking it out in my person in charge or playing with my lil boy can someone help me
it's kind of difficult but possibly I would make fun back at him to keep hold of the spirit going. Try to put down your low self esteem and react with superior power and maybe will work. Medications would help but if you cant affor it...
Or you can try natter to him and tell him not to do so bks it hurts your feelings and you are discouraged inside after he does that.
He should be understanding if he knows that you tried to cut youself beforehand and be supportive.
Obviously couple therapy is out of the question for insurance issue, but I don`t know is what you guys need. Best of luck.
Your husband is probably powerless to actually deal beside the situation, hence he tries to make light of it by making fun of your disorder.
Try to achieve some easy to read information on your dirorders and ask him to read them. Try to tell him how you have a feeling when he makes fun of your disorders. If you do not tell him how you quality or show him how you feel, he might think that you are content for him to joke about it.
Good Luck
Answers: omigod.
That is so wrong.
I'de slap the *****!
Your husband seems to be having a problem.
Ask him what his problem is. Tell him how much it hurts you when he make fun of you. He might say, "I'm just fooling."
Tell him, "It hurts me when you bring in fun of me. And if you love me, you will respect my feelings."
Best Wishes. You deserve the respect of your husband.
You call for to tell your husband how you feel. He sounds close to a jerk and if he is rude when you tell him, consider disappearing the assh0le!
If your son sees his mother being treated this road, he will learn to do it in his own relationships. He requirements to see you getting things out in the open and standing up for yourself.
Also, look into free mental strength clinics in your area, you may be capable of get low/no cost therapy or drugs.
Good luck to you, and remember - you deserve to be treated in good health!
Talk to your husband in a detached manner about what you are response. Find out if he is actually making fun of you or if you are misperceiving. There's a fair fortune that he's ticked off but not coming out and saying give or take a few what. That's what you need to know and then you two inevitability to have a rational, non-argumentative discussion.
Btw, if you are bipolar, you call for to be on meds. If not for you, for your kid. In that, grow up and assume responsibility. I have bipolar, so I'm not just someone who doesn't know what it's resembling.
The only person that can assistance you is you. Your husband is being mean and cruel. There are agencies that relief people that don't have insurance to payment for treatment and medications, usually run by the your County Department of Mental Health. I suggest you contact them and see if they can assist you.
As for your husband, you really would be better off minus him, even though you think you can't live without him, you can. He's a contract and if he loved you, he would be trying to help you, not treat you like dirt. Shame on him!